Be all of me

Written By Kate Payne

Dear Tamie:

I have a bad habit of losing myself in intimate relationships. What can I do?

-Lost in Luling

Lost in Luling:

Perhaps 5 months ago, I realized that my energy system did not have a self. It was shocking but unsurprising given that any break up felt like a "life or death" experience. I am an energy healer so I had the skill set to immediately create a self that is lovely, recognizable and beautiful to behold. I've used this Valentine's Day to fully uncovering and delighting in myself. I changed all the love songs I heard to be gloriously healthfully interdependent. For instance, instead of "All of me, why not take all of me," I changed it to "All of me, why not be all of me." I did this all day long.

Kate Payne
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